What is the basis of marital happiness? Many believe – the understanding, love to each other, the ability to build harmonious relationships. It’s important, but it is only catalysts.
The basis of marital happiness – two people, happy and successful on their life’s journey.
If they are initially happy and successful, love will make them even happier. Love – is a powerful catalyst that most strongly reveals the inner world.
There is only one reason that makes people unhappy – it is fear of liability.
See how interesting it works.
Have you ever been responsible for some of your misdeeds or mistakes? What memories do you have about this situation? It is unlikely that the punishment for a misdemeanor has brought you pleasure and you have the desire to be back to this situation.
80% of people do not want to get back to this situation and either start to adjust themselves under the generally accepted standards, or are trying to shift responsibility to other people and circumstances. They actively convince all that – the circumstances. And finally, themselves begin to trust in it, getting in their own trap.
Small salary – blame of the government and the economic situation. Poor health – bad ecology, doctors do not know how to treat. There is no happiness in the family – the husband is a goat. Children are rude – blame of the school and the company with which the child is contacted, etc.
It all began with the banal “it’s not me.” In order to avoid responsibility for your actions, you completely crossed out your bright and rich way of life, replacing it by ordinary gray existence.
Fear of responsibility leads to the fact that a person becomes passive and loses ability to manage his life.
Can he be happy? – What happiness, when a man betrayed his goals and lost himself?
He may have a lot of money, he may have all the trappings of a happy and successful man, but inside sits a state of dissatisfaction, because he knows that wants something different in his life.
Building a happy family life, full of joy, success, starts with disclosure of yourself. First, you should put in order your own life, determine your true desires, to set goals and start to go.
This is an important point – to reveal yourself and begin your journey before to build family relationships. If you are still in search of your loved one, it will allow to attract someone who will share your interests, ideas, desires.
If you will be realized, purposeful and will realize your dreams, this power will increase many times, when you begin to live together.